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Sarah Costa

Sarah Costa

Sarah Costa

Sarah Costa

FORMER DIRECTOR TO INNOVATE

Sarah is a firm believer that one can have their cake and eat it too. In fact, cake decorating is one of her favorite hobbies! She also loves to sew, knit, read, write, play violin, and dance. Sarah started her first business as a daily money manager when she was a junior in high school. She has run a successful tax practice for more than 16 years. During the last 12 of those years, she has also been raising and homeschooling her two sons.

She is very active in her church where she has served in a leadership capacity for more than 7 years. Sarah believes that her secret to success is first and foremost having an amazing spouse who partners with her in business, child rearing, and home responsibilities. The second thing is that the different aspects of her life are integrated. She brings her kids to the office with her and helps them with school in between client phone calls and emails. The kids work with her by scanning, shredding, and preparing mailings. Lastly, Sarah’s faith is part of who she is and it affects how she interacts not just with those at church, but her family and clients as well.

​Sarah is looking forward to supporting and educating companies and families about the value of mom friendly work environments and using her talents and experiences to help reframe our cultural perceptions of what it means to be “just a mom”. She hopes to improve the lives of moms and families everywhere through creativity, service, and innovation.

PERSONAL PAGES!

As a thank you to those who donate $30 or more to Momivate, we designate a personalized page to the person whose name they submitted to the Wall of Honor. It can include a photo and bio, and visitors to the page can post comments, sharing memories and celebrating this mother!

Stephanne Beauchamp

Stephanne Beauchamp

Stephanne Beauchamp

Stephanne Beauchamp

Former Director of Unique Circumstances

Stephanne moved to Oregon as a young child from Haiti. As a first-generation Haitian American, she loves living in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and calls it home. Stephanne is a single mom of three kiddos, ages 13, 11, and 5, who are the center of her world. During the day she works for a government agency in Human Resources. She loves to serve the citizens of her community to support underrepresented and marginalized groups in her county. She is also an active participant in philanthropic work and an avid supporter of the American Heart/Stroke Association (She is a SURVIVOR),  a Camp Counselor/Counselor Supervisor with Mt. Hood Kiwanis Camp (outdoor recreation program to support individuals with developmental, intellectual and physical disabilities); and Haitian Roots to educationally sponsor children in Haiti to have access to education. During her free time, she enjoys spending time with her kids, reading, game nights, practicing her violin, camping and all summer shenanigans! She is GRATEFUL and HONORED for the opportunity to serve as a Board member on the Momivate team.

PERSONAL PAGES!

As a thank you to those who donate $30 or more to Momivate, we designate a personalized page to the person whose name they submitted to the Wall of Honor. It can include a photo and bio, and visitors to the page can post comments, sharing memories and celebrating this mother!

Barbara Ballard

Barbara Ballard

Barbara Ballard

Barbara Ballard

After Barbara’s death at age 86, her husband gave this lovely tribute to her at a worldwide general conference of the church where he served as an apostle. Bolded portions seem particularly relevant to Momivate’s mission.

“I suppose most of us fail to fully appreciate what others do for us until they are gone. I knew Barbara was always busy, but I did not fully understand the constant family, Church, and community demands upon her time. There were daily consecrated efforts repeated thousands of times through the years that kept our family functioning. And through it all, no one in our family ever heard her raise her voice or say an unkind word.

Floods of memories have washed over me this past year. I have thought about the physically demanding choice she made to be the mother of seven children. Being a homemaker was the only career she ever wanted, and she was in every aspect a consummate professional.

Often I have wondered how she kept track of our children and me. Meal preparation alone was a truly daunting task, not to mention activities such as doing the mountains of laundry our family generated every week and keeping shoes and appropriately sized clothing on the children. We all turned to her on a myriad of other issues that were important to us. And because they were important to us, they were also important to her. She was, in a word, magnificent—as a wife, as a mother, as a friend, as a neighbor, and as a daughter of God.

Brothers and sisters, please do not miss an opportunity to look into the eyes of your family members with love. Children and parents, reach out to each other and express your love and appreciation. Like me, some of you may wake up one day to discover that the time for such important communication has passed. Live each day together with hearts filled with gratitude, good memories, service, and much love.”

PERSONAL PAGES!

As a thank you to those who donate $30 or more to Momivate, we designate a personalized page to the person whose name they submitted to the Wall of Honor. It can include a photo and bio, and visitors to the page can post comments, sharing memories and celebrating this mother!

Sam Allred

Sam Allred

Sam Allred

Sam Allred

Former Momivate’s Leader of Music, Inspiration, and Laugh

Sam is a new mom to a one-year-old baby girl. Becoming a mother during a worldwide pandemic was one of the most difficult things she has ever done. She learned that motherhood stretches your limits in every regard – physically, mentally, and emotionally. She has gained a lot of respect and appreciation for the role of motherhood and she is beyond grateful for all the mother figures she has in her life.

Sam has a bachelor’s degree in behavioral sciences with an emphasis in psychology and will soon be pursuing a masters degree in social work in order to pursue her goal to address women’s mental health issues. She has a diverse volunteer background including working with children with behavioral issues, helping teens improve their academics, working as a mediator between teens and their parents, co-authoring published psychological research, and helping build homes for families in need. Her professional history includes working as a medical assistant and as head coach for a high school girls lacrosse team. She is devoted to helping others and intends to continue helping others along her chosen career path.

Sam also has a love for music. She has played the piano since she was a kid and has been a member of two award winning choirs. She believes that laughter is the best medicine and loves spending time with her family, who makes her laugh the most. She finds daily inspiration through having honest conversations with others, reading good books, listening to informative podcasts, and searching for something positive in every situation. She believes that music, laughter, and inspiration are all important aspects of motherhood. She also has a deep appreciation for authentic Mexican food, baking, warm beaches, and spontaneous kitchen dance parties.

PERSONAL PAGES!

As a thank you to those who donate $30 or more to Momivate, we designate a personalized page to the person whose name they submitted to the Wall of Honor. It can include a photo and bio, and visitors to the page can post comments, sharing memories and celebrating this mother!

Fostering with a Mother-Heart

Fostering with a Mother-Heart

By Esperanza Svyeta

As the oldest daughter in a large family, with a mother that was absolutely devoted to her calling as a mother, I was blessed to feel fairly comfortable when I began to have children of my own. I’d had many opportunities to practice nurturing skills at home with my younger siblings, and my mother often talked to me about her philosophy of mothering and her great joy in it. I wanted nothing so much as to be a mother myself.

As an adult, I continued my education in the social work field, and raised my own family. Eventually, I also became a foster parent. This awesome opportunity is not for the faint-hearted. It can be very demanding and very frustrating. It is your “job” to mother the foster child in a way they likely have never actually experienced, and yet do nothing to interfere with the ability of the child to bond with the natural parents should they become able to once again take up the role of full-time parent. It is a fine line to walk and too many foster parents resign themselves to the role of caretaker and do not try to assume the role of a parent, because it is just too difficult to truly mother a child that you may lose at any time. I do understand this, but for me it was never possible to do it that way.

It is easier to do if one recognizes that “mother” need not be an exclusive role in a child’s life. In fact, studies have shown that the more positive and loving adult influences in a child’s life, the higher the likelihood of their own happiness and success in life. Therefore, a foster mother is a “second” mother, not the primary mother, but can have an effect that may be far ranging later in life. One foster mother told me, “You have to consider that if they graduate from high school, and they are not in jail, or on drugs . . you won!” The foster mother may never actually know the positive influence, but once in a great while one hears of child who remembered something of what they experienced in your home and it helped them. 

Awhile back, a former foster child called and told me that she had gotten caught up in drugs and that when she hit rock bottom and wanted a lifeline to change she went to a local church (not my particular church) to find a God-fearing family that would help her straighten out. She stuck to it with them, and their pastor, and ended up off drugs, happily married, with two children. That was when she called to tell me that it was because she had lived with us (for only six months) that she knew the kind of place to go to get help to straighten out her life. It felt really good.

“The influence of a mother in the lives of her children is beyond calculation.” -James E. Faust