Are Your Brain Bones Connected To Your Silly Bones?

Hi, I’m Regan Barnes from Momivate, and this is your two-minute Mom Tip empowering you to elevate your mothering experience.

As moms, we often notice family dynamics that aren’t necessarily positive. As moms, we often feel like we need to take charge and change up those dynamics — and if we can do so in a positive, non-threatening manner and tone, it’s easier to be patient as the dynamic generally requires time to be adjusted.

One situation we have had to work on in our family is when the kids come home from school… They’re so happy and relieved to be home, and of course, they need their hands free so they can hug me! So they drop their coat and backpack on the floor right in front of the door. Then they go about getting a snack … and the coat and backpack are left to be booby-traps, ready to trip the poor unassuming person who happens to come home next.

I decided that my kids’ brains need to be connected to their hands, so that when their hands are ready to let go of any given object, their brains send out a red alert, “Wait! Don’t let go until the item is where it belongs!!!”

Now, I tend to think that my children’s brains, although not fully-formed, really do know where things belong. However, their brains just aren’t aware of what’s happening down at the end of the arms.

So that’s when we put our hands on our heads and say in the spirit of that old folk song, “Brain bones connected to the hand bones!”

Moms, try being silly with your kids to help them learn a new habit, then share if this practice elevates your mothering!

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